Master Paris Etiquette, Impress the Locals (Well, Maybe😊)
By Sam Lee, 2025. Let's be honest. Parisians have a bit of a rep for being, shall we say, direct with tourists (okay, sometimes flat-out rude). Don’t take it personally.
Paris is a bustling metropolis laden with tourists, and folks are on the go. But I know firsthand how embracing a few French customs can help you connect with locals and totally transform your trip. Think of it as your secret Parisian survival kit. You might even impress the Parisian locals. Well, maybe…😊
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Greeting Locals
First impressions matter, and in Paris, it all starts with a “bonjour” (day) or “bonsoir” (evening). Seriously, it's like a magic word.
Enter a shop, restaurant, or museum without saying it, and you might as well be waving a “rude” tourist flag. No need to go overboard—save the three cheek kisses for people you know well. Just keep it light and friendly.
It's also a good idea to brush up on basic French pleasantries. A thank you "merci" or please "s'il vous plaît" (sounds kinda like seevuplay) can work wonders. And, please, resist the urge to launch into English immediately. Even if your French is limited.
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Dining Etiquette
Dining in Paris is an art form. Take your time and savor every bite. This isn't a fast-food joint; it's a culinary experience. Also, remember to keep your voice down. Trust me on this: Even if you think you’re whispering, you’re probably still too loud.😊
When it comes to sharing a meal, steer clear of talking about money or politics unless you know the person really well. Instead, chat about art, food, or travel—those topics are golden. And yes, that bread basket? It’s meant to be shared.
Lastly, no one in Paris is in a rush to clear the table. Meals are meant to be savored, so don't stress if the waiter doesn't bring the check for a long while. Just sit back, relax, and enjoy your espresso—maybe even order another round of dessert.
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What About Tipping?
I get asked this all the time. In a lot of places, service is already included in your bill. So, no need to stress about calculating a tip.
If your waiter or waitress was particularly charming or went above and beyond, rounding up your bill or leaving a few extra euros is a nice touch. Think of it as saying "merci" for making your day a bit brighter.
No need to go overboard. Parisian waitstaff aren't expecting a small fortune; they appreciate the gesture. So relax, enjoy your meal.
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Fashion Sense
If you want to blend in, keep it simple and practical. Think neutral colors, tailored fits, and nothing too flashy. Save your Hawaiian shirts and gym shorts for your next beach trip.
Comfortable footwear is crucial. I mean essential. Parisians love their stylish but sensible shoes. High heels and cobblestones don’t mix well, and neither do flip-flops and city streets.
Accessorize wisely. A stylish scarf can elevate your look without making you look like you're trying too hard. And remember, the less-is-more approach always wins in Paris. Leave your flashy oversized jewelry at home — it’ll likely attract scammers.
Honestly, whether you want to blend in or not, the best thing to do is dress for the weather and the activities on your itinerary.
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Public Transport Manners
Public transport in Paris is like a well-oiled machine—unless you decide to throw a wrench in it. First rule: "pardon" (sounds more like pardoh) is your golden ticket. Accidentally bump someone? Say "pardon." Sneezing in someone's direction? Yep, "pardon" again.
When using escalators, stick to the right side like glue. The left side is the Parisian Autobahn—reserved for those in a rush. Want to avoid being run over? Trust me, keep right.
And let's talk about seating etiquette. Don't take up extra seats with your bag; your Louis Vuitton deserves the floor just like everyone else’s. If you see an elderly person or a pregnant woman standing, offer your seat. Karma points guaranteed.
Oh, and a word on noise: keep your phone on silent. The last thing anyone wants is a front-row seat to your latest playlist or, worse, a live commentary on your Parisian escapades. Follow these simple tips, and you'll blend in seamlessly (and help to keep pickpocketers at bay). Even the locals might ask you for directions!
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Handling Money
Coins are essential in Paris for small purchases like that morning café or your beloved pain au chocolate (so addictive!). Pulling out a €50 bill for a €2 pastrie? Bad move.
You’ll get a look that could curdle milk. Instead, get friendly with your euros and cents. It’s also a great way to avoid flashing big bills like a tourist beacon.
ATMs are your best friends here (just try to avoid ones in the main tourist areas). Don’t carry wads of cash around; there are plenty of pickpockets in tourist areas. Stick to smaller amounts.
And a quick tip: when paying, place the money directly into the cashier's hand, not on the counter. It's the little things that show you’re not a total newbie. Lastly, keep your wallet secure and close; there's no faster way to ruin a trip than losing your cash and cards. Stay smart, stay savvy.
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Personal Space
Parisians like personal space. When you're on public transport, keep your conversations at a low volume. Seriously, no one on the métro is interested in your latest travel antics. If you're standing in line, remember to give people room to breathe, and they'll return the favor.
Now, about those charming Parisian cafés: tables are close, but resist the urge to eavesdrop on your neighbors. Pretend you're in your own little bubble, sipping your espresso and watching the world go by.
And if you accidentally make eye contact? A polite smile is all you need. The French value politeness and a little respect for personal space goes a long way in keeping the Parisian vibe friendly and relaxed.
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Photography Etiquette
Paris is Instagram heaven, but a little discretion goes a long way. When snapping shots of the local scene, always ask for permission before photographing people. Nobody wants to be the unwitting star of your travel blog.
In museums, keep that flash off. Not only will it preserve the art, but it also saves you from the death glare of the guards who’ve seen one too many bright lights.
At iconic spots like the Eiffel Tower or Notre Dame, resist the urge to block traffic for that perfect selfie. Remember, you're not the only one who wants that postcard shot!
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Shopping in Paris
Shopping in Paris is like a goldmine (especially thrifting), but with way more "bonjours”. First things first, greet the shopkeeper with that magical "bonjour" to unlock the VIP treatment.
Before you start rifling through racks like a fashion tornado, remember to ask for permission. Parisian stores are more "sophisticated soiree" than "Black Friday frenzy."
And about those fitting rooms—don't expect a sprawling space. Think cozy chic, where you and your potential new wardrobe get very acquainted. When it’s time to pay, don’t just throw your cash on the counter. Hand it to the cashier with a smile; it's a little gesture that goes a long way.
Oh, and haggling? Save it for the flea markets. In boutiques, the price tag is the final word.
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Understanding the French Pace
Paris operates on a different clock—one that seems to prioritize leisure over speed. Embrace the slower pace of life and enjoy the moment. Don’t expect immediate service everywhere; relax and savor the experience. Remember, the French invented the word "flâneur"—to stroll aimlessly—so take your time and let Paris reveal itself to you slowly. And enjoy!
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